Actress Anupama Parameswaran has shared a lengthy note about double standards, role reversals and the way people judge others. Without naming anyone, the actress spoke about how certain actions that were once criticised can become acceptable when the people involved change.
Anupama Parameswaran shares cryptic post
Anupama Parameswaran took to her Instagram stories where she talked about the pressure to explain personal choices and the importance of protecting one’s peace.The ‘Dragon’ actress began her note by pointing out how people can be made to feel guilty for things that are later accepted when someone else does them.
Anupama talks about double standards and role reversals
“The things you were once made to feel guilty about have become perfectly normal when the roles are reversed.”She explained that even simple actions, such as expressing happiness, appreciating people who support you and enjoying small moments, can sometimes invite unnecessary criticism.“It makes you realise that sometimes, it was never really about what you did. It was about who was allowed to do it.”
Actress speaks about social media interactions
The actress also observed that people often form opinions based on what they see on social media without knowing what may have happened behind the scenes.In the same post, Anupama clarified that interacting with people on social media has always been something she enjoys. She said it was not a new habit and that she intends to continue doing it.“Also I’ve always loved interacting with people here, and it’s something I’ve been doing for years, not something I discovered yesterday.”
Anupama says she wants to protect her peace
However, she added that she wants to maintain a healthy balance and will not let social media interactions affect her personal peace.“I’ll continue doing so genuinely and sustainably, but not desperately or at the cost of my own peace.”Anupama further shared that life outside social media comes with its own responsibilities and challenges. She said people do not have to constantly display their feelings online to prove that they are genuine.“Life beyond social media comes with its own responsibilities and battles, and I have plenty of those too. Love and gratitude don’t need to be constantly performed to be real. :)”The actress ended her note by returning to the theme of her post, writing, “Funny how the rules change when the roles reverse. :)”Anupama Parameswaran was last seen in the film ‘Crazy Kalyanam’.